Saying Goodbye

From the first steps of your pet’s life to the final stages, we are here to guide you with compassion and support every step of the way.

Pet Euthanasia

A NOTE FROM DR DUNCAN MCGINNESS

Pet ownership in Dubbo and elsewhere, has extraordinary benefits. Scientific facts indicate pets improve our general health. Cat lovers have on average lower blood pressure and pet owners have less chance of a repeated heart attack.


This makes the enormous challenge facing us when considering pet euthanasia all the more testing. The strong connection forged over many years of mutual respect, love and adoration emotionally binds us to our pets. I’m sure many have experienced the anguish of this decision. Everyone shares the mixed feelings of guilt and sadness and typically most are reluctant to make the hardest of choices.


My aim is to change everyone’s perspective and look on pet euthanasia in a different more positive light. The decision will never be easy but a change in thought may provide some peace of mind.


When we know our pet is in pain or has reached an age where degenerative processes have left mobility and/ or appetite diminished or absent, then it is time to say goodbye. Rather than look on putting an animal to sleep as a bad thing, please understand it is a way of relieving pain permanently and a means of preventing suffering. If the future for our pet offers a poor quality of life, I consider it a final precious gift.


Euthanasia in pets is performed by initially administering a sedative in preparation for an overdose of anaesthetic. So the pets are initially sedated, become anaesthetized, then stop breathing and die as their heart stops. Nothing could be kinder or more peaceful. The pets don’t experience any discomfort as the anaesthetic provides pain relief as it circulates.


For those yet to face this experience, please give this advice careful consideration. For those already suffering the effects of grief, it will take time for you to deal with this enormous challenge. Slowly your pain will recede, your perspective will improve and you’ll regain your positive outlook on life. Never try and rush this process and do not expect too much of yourself.


Our feelings and reflections relating to certain events are often really enjoyable. Euthanasia however, mostly conjures up guilt and negative memories. Rather than punish ourselves with gloomy reflection, just remember you did the very best for your pet at the time, and your final gift was the kindest and most thoughtful of all.


Dubbo is most fortunate to have a strong branch of the National Association of Loss and Grief (NSW) NALAG active in our community. These wonderful carers are only a phone call away and offer sympathetic council for anyone upset from loss of any kind. Please phone NALAG in Dubbo on 02 6882 9222.

The Quiet Room

It is widely accepted, that the chance to say goodbye with a pat or a cuddle after death, can help acceptance and assist in the grieving process.

We offer a quiet room where clients can spend time with their pet after passing, allowing for a peaceful and private farewell farewell.

We hope this helps our clients through the most difficult part of pet ownership. We are proud of our quiet room and hope this facility offers some help for our wonderful clients as they wish their beloved pets a last goodbye.

Decision Making

Deciding when to say goodbye without regret.

It is a difficult time when your pet is nearing the end of its life.  We often get questions about a pet's quality of life, and hope the following helps you and your pet to make the right decision at the right time.

Here’s a list of questions to help you assess your pet’s quality of life:

  • Can they make their way to food and water bowls, and enjoy their eating and drinking? 

  • Are they in control of their bladder and bowel movements? 

  • Are they still interacting happily with you and the rest of the family? Maybe they seem to no longer want to be a part of the household? 

  • Do you recognise the pet you've always had? Do they still have the same personality? 

  • Have you noticed changes in your pet's personality that may indicate it may be in pain? Perhaps they have become aggressive or they are seeking isolation? 

  • Are they able to do normal things - go for a walk, enjoy a sniff around the yard or park, still able to groom themselves without being distressed? 

  • Do they still enjoy playing games and doing other fun activities? 

  • Has your pet's existing condition got to the point where it can no longer be controlled or treated medically?

If your answers to most of these questions indicates a poor quality of life, come in for a consult and discuss with the vet if there is any treatment to help these conditions, or consider if it is the right time to let them go.

Good days and bad days can be recorded on a calendar as a tick or a cross. In any one week when the crosses (bad days) exceed the ticks (good days), then the quality of life is surely diminishing. Consider it is time.

Saying goodbye to a beloved pet is one of the hardest but most important times of your pet's life.  In the end we must trust our instincts and after seeking the advice of your trusted vet, you will know it is the right time.  

National Association of Loss and Grief (NALAG)

We are very fortunate to have the services of some wonderful support people in Dubbo. NALAG (NSW) Inc. is the National Association of Loss and Grief - 02 6882 9222. There are many volunteers who dedicate themselves to supporting others. These wonderful people know first hand what depths of despair people who experience loss go through and they want to help.

Pet Beloved - A Farewell Poem

If it should be that I grow frail and weak,
And pain should keep me from my sleep.
Then you must do what must be done,
For this, the last battle can't be won.

You will be sad, I understand,
Don't let your grief then stay your hand,
For this day more than the rest,
Your love and friendship stand the test.

We've had so many happy years,
What is to come holds no fears,
You'd not want me to suffer so,
When the time comes, please let me go.

Take me where my needs they'll tend,
Only stay with me to the end.
And hold me firm and speak to me,
Until my eyes no longer see.

Don't grieve it should be you,
Who decided this thing to do,
We've been so close, we two, these years,
Don't let your heart hold any tears.
Smile for we walked together for a little while.

I know in time you will see
It is kindness you do to me,
Although my tail its last has waved,
From pain and suffering I've been saved.

By Anonymous

Room to Care - NALAG News Article

A National Association of Loss and Grief article from the NALAG News in December 2015 written by Paula Hanson, about when she interviewed Dr Duncan McGinness and about the "Quiet Room" at the the clinic.

If you would like to discuss your pets end of life care please phone us on 02 6884 9900.